Being in the limelight with everyone observing you, man, it can be extremely exciting but can also be very frightening at times. With many years of public speaking experience and assisting individuals in developing their brand, I’ve discovered that to truly excel on the stage, you need to understand the crowd’s interests. So let’s delve into five aspects that people genuinely desire to gain from a being-in-the-spotlight experience.
Number one, confidence in the room—without it, you’re just gonna trip all over your own words.
Number five, dealing with feedback—can be a buzzkill, but also a chance to get better.
Number one, confidence in the room—without it, you’re just gonna trip all over your own words.
Confidence, that’s your base, whether you’re on a work pitch or a stage performance. You got to come off like you know what you’re doing.
I’ve coached lots of people who are all nerves and second guessing. I’ve helped them learn to step out there and not let a crowd rattle them.
Number two, making those in the crowd really, truly feel like part of the show. It’s more than just talking.
Connecting with the crowd is key, it’s not just about getting through a talk, it’s about really hooking in on a connection. I like to bring in stories, some laughs, and cool stuff for interaction, that way people stick around. This approach has not only helped me but also my clients achieve better results in their public appearances.
Number three, nailing that art of public speaking, like storytelling that hooks in and messages that really pack a punch.
Public speaking is an art that takes practice to perfect, and I’ve honed my approach with education and practice over the years. I’ve assisted individuals from diverse backgrounds, from Chief Executive Officers to educators and creators, to articulate their ideas concisely and effectively.
Number four, crafting your personal brand—like who you are and what you stand for. It matters big time in the spotlight.
When you are in the public eye, you need to have your unique identity well-defined. I’ve supported individuals as well as companies determine their brand narrative maintain an image that aligns. In order to do it correctly, it’s all about understanding your target audience, your core values and mission, and ensuring that and that you outwardly demonstrate it.
Number five, dealing with feedback—can be a buzzkill, but also a chance to get better.
Getting some feedback? Can be quite discouraging, especially when you’re out there on stage everyone’s watching. I demonstrate to my clients how to use criticism as a growth instrument, like turning it into an opportunity to improve. Developing resilience and learning how to deal with what gets said helps them keep it together on stage.